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"Misogyny (/mɪˈsɒɪni/) is the hatred or dislike of women or girls. Misogyny can be manifested in numerous ways, including sexual discrimination, denigration of women, violence against women, and sexual objectification of women.

BTS - Danger

credit: @www.kpoplyrics.net

You’re in danger
You’re in danger
You’re in danger
You’re in danger

You treat me like this everyday
You only care about yourself like you are just you
I am just I, that’s your kind of formula.

Does your phone work right? Really?
Am I really your boy friend? I’m sick of this!

Why are you holding back your expression of love like you put off your homework?
Is it like a business relationship for you? Or Do you hate me or what?
Dung Dung Diggy Dung Dung
Please be more affectionate! I pray for it again today.

We are like parallel lines. We are so different though we both are looking at the same place.
You are the only one that I got inside but I feel like that I’m outside of you.
Whenever I turn sulky you ask me “Are you mad at me?”
Have you ever really done something to me?
You are a sweetie! But I’m just a poor boy
I wish the miracle would happen that you love more than I do.

You don’t have me inside but I’m full of you. It drives me crazy.
But why are you doing this to me?
Why are you making a fool of me? Now I’m warning you!
Don’t get me twisted!

Are you fucking kidding me? What am I to you?
Am I easy to you? Are you plying with me?
You are in danger now. Why are you testing me? Why are you testing me?
Don’t get me twisted.

Are you fucking kidding me? What am I to you?
Am I easy to you? Are you playing with me?
You are in danger now. Why are you testing me? Why are you testing me?
Don’t get me twisted.

(You hurt me so! You hurt me so! You hurt me so!)
Don’t get me twisted
(You are too bad to me! You are too bad to me! You are too bad to me!)
Don’t get me twisted

Contact. Absence. Unlock. Wanted.
I’m searching for your real intension.
You always send me just 1 or 2 line of text messages and that’s it.
Was this really love I’ve wanted and dreamed?

Where is the love story filled with ups and downs?
Get soap opera heroes and heroines out of my way!
I am tearing my hair out like hundreds of times.
You are so calm and feel no guilty, and you kick my ass

What am I? What am I? What am I to you?
I always heard your news not from yourself but from your friends.
Want you. Want you. Uh~ I want you
You are trickster. You are a criminal who shook my heart..
I had already wasted my heart even before it started to burn.
My one-way proposes are waste of time.
If I was not a lover but just a friend to you, maybe you would feel more comfortable. I’m such a love loser.

You don’t have me inside but I’m full of you. It drives me crazy.
But why are you doing this to me? Why are you making a fool of me? Now I’m warning you!
Don’t get me twisted!

Are you fucking kidding me? What am I to you?
Am I easy to you? Are you plying with me?
You are in danger now. Why are you testing me? Why are you testing me?
Don’t get me twisted.

Are you fucking kidding me? What am I to you?
Am I easy to you? Are you playing with me?
You are in danger now. Why are you testing me? Why are you testing me?
Don’t get me twisted.

(You hurt me so! You hurt me so! You hurt me so!)
Don’t get me twisted
(You are too bad to me! You are too bad to me! You are too bad to me!)
Don’t get me twisted


Nowhere within the lyrics is there an indication of violence, nor a threat of violence, or any type of misogyny. I can admit —

"You are in danger now. Why are you testing me? Why are you testing me? Don’t get me twisted."

— is probably not the best way that could’ve been worded. I think this line was pulled out of context, hence this “controversy” began.

Let’s start out with what “out of context” means. 

"The practice of quoting out of context, sometimes referred to as "contextomy”, is a logical fallacy and a type of false attribution in which a passage is removed from its surrounding matter in such a way as to distort its intended meaning. Contextomies are stereotypically intentional, but may also occur accidentally if someone misinterprets the meaning and omits something essential to clarifying it, thinking it non-essential.

"A fallacy is an argument that uses poor reasoning.”

Now I can see this argument stemming from someone who possibly misinterpreted the lyrics as a “threat”. 

"1. A threat is a statement of an intention to inflict pain, injury, damage, or other hostile action on someone in retribution for something done or not done.

2. A threat is a person or thing likely to cause damage or danger.

There is no statement of an intention to inflict pain, injury, damage, or other hostile action within these lyrics. The only thing that is in “danger” is their relationship, or lack thereof. This woman/girl is showing a blatant disregard of their relationship and his feelings. He is left wondering why she is being like this, why there is no communication verbal or otherwise. He continues to ask her what he means to her. Is he simply just nothing? Is he not important enough? Does she not love him? She is simply stringing him along. As if she is in a relationship with herself. He is basically warning her that if you keep this up, there will be no you and I. This relationship will dissolve. The only thing in danger here is their relationship. Not her, not him, no one is being harmed physically, nor threatened. There is no under current or ever blatant mention of misogyny within any of these lyrics.  

I believe this whole thing was a misconception/misinterpretation. And if someone purposely decided to twist the lyrics around to discourage people from taking interest in BTS and/or in voting for BTS, you are simply a disappointment as a fellow human being. I know when I need to correct another human when they have done wrong. In this case, BTS has done nothing wrong. If they had, I would not defend it. I don’t believe in enabling someone just because you adore them. Humans are humans and nothing more. 

Now can we please put this “issue” to rest? If you think I’ve said something wrong, you can leave me a message and I’ll take it into consideration. Otherwise, I think we should just calm down and continue on. 

in other news i was scrolling my dash today minding my own business and i saw this trashcan of a post and i’d just like to say 1) this argument is complete bullshit you obviously have the “if it doesnt offend me then its not offensive” mentality so like thanks for the onion but no one cares and 2) thanks for taking so much time out of your day making me waste mine reading it

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